American columnist Jancee Dunn explores how having children changes marriage dynamics and how we can all learn to manage emotions, share responsibilities, and nurture our relationships.

In the 21st century, we see marriage as an equal partnership and believe traditional gender roles are behind us. But centuries of socializing men and women to behave in certain ways doesn't disappear in a single generation.

When American journalist Jancee Dunn and her husband decided to start a family, they expected their partnership to stay the same, but as soon as their daughter was born, they slid into traditional roles.

Disappointed and angry, Dunn decided to research what happens to couples when they have children.

In How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids, Dunn shares insights from couples therapy, personal experiences, and the extensive interviews with experts that helped her save her marriage.