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Why We ClickBy Kate Murphy

In a Nutshell

Journalist and bestselling author Kate Murphy examines why we get along better with some people than others, and what the science behind our interpersonal relationships says about human nature.

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As exquisitely social creatures, humans have evolved to synchronize with, or embody, one another because embodiment leads to understanding and empathy, which is the ultimate survival skill.

Kate Murphy

Introduction

Whether it's at work, on dates, at parties, or in class, there are certain people we meet and 'click' with immediately.

Interpersonal synchrony explains why it's easier to fall in step with some people than others. It's why we end up mirroring each other's mannerisms and speech, and even subconsciously syncing things like heart rate and hormonal activity.

Kate Murphy is a journalist and author of the international bestseller You're Not Listening. In her 2026 book, Why We Click, she dives deep into the science of human connection.

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