When it comes to discussing commitment, openheartedness and vulnerability are essential. Your intention cannot be to push your will on your partner but rather to bring about the highest good for you both. This Hack is brought to you by Shane Kohler, host of The Conscious Love Show Podcast.

A man's uncertainty about commitment doesn't mean he feels nothing for you. His journey to commitment is a deeply personal process that he is working through in his own way and his own time.

Rather than trying to push for something he doesn't feel ready for, it's better to understand where he is in his journey and what that means for you in the relationship.

Embracing open, honest conversation, with the intention to understand, rather than pushing forward an agenda of commitment, will allow him to feel safe enough to be honest with you about where he is and create the maximum possibility for him to become ready if he is not now.